Deconditioning the Heart

The undefined Heart absorbs the will force and self-worth energy of defined Ego people. A compulsive need to prove worth develops - through achievement, through being needed, through demonstrating that you are capable and deserving. The person over-commits to make themselves look reliable. Over-promising. Saying yes to demonstrate capability. Pushing past genuine energy limits to show you can handle it. Shame and self-criticism when commitments cannot be kept. A persistent background sense of not being enough, driving continuous effort to close the gap.